Fear of grizzly bears, tigers, snakes ... may
be rational, but fear of selling? Really? Why?
- As the image shows, learning to jump does not start with a leap over the grand canyon, no no no, it starts in a gym or on a track where incremental gains are made.
- Selling is the same, you learn with your peers where you role play
, with established accounts where the client is expecting a new person to come see them, perhaps in the company of a mentor or ... if you are brazen enough and like a challenge, on a cold call by yourself.
In all cases, what can happen? What harm can befall you, how can you be damaged?
Anwer?
YOU cannot be harmed in any way.
- Confidence comes from extending beyond your comfort zone, certainly you can be confident doing the same thing, playing the same games, riding the same bicycle you had when you were 5, but how much fun is that?
Selling is the 2nd oldest profession (and the oldest also required some form of selling), think of the ancient times when people bought from those selling from wagons or tents, flea markets, malls, stores, from the pesky telemarketers ... in all cases the sellers did not die because you did not buy, they just went on to the next prospect and profited as a result. (learning as they went)
Now back you you,
yes you
. What part of the selling process causes you to be nervous, shy, reticent, has you stuttering, developing nervous ticks and twitches, forgetting key aspects of why you even called the person ... ? Really?
Why?
The answer? Selling is simply speaking with or communicating with others in an effort to establish a need, and then to fill that need. If there is no need, then nothing is lost and you have no need to feel anything except confidence that you did the best you could and that your self-worth has
NOT
been affected. If there is a need and you fill it, then it is a win / win and you should feel confident at your prowess at selling.
Selling is a great profession, and those who are the best at it read about it, practice it, role-play everytime they have a chance and live well as a result.
If you want confidence, get some
. (nothing comes easy)